Arrive
Come as you are.
What you getSpace to arrive without pressure to perform, prepare or have anything figured out.
Guided reflection workshops for women
Know Yourself
More Deeply.
Uncover the beliefs quietly shaping how you experience your life.
Who we are
A space for women to become curious about themselves.
We spend so much of our lives learning how to build careers, raise families, pursue goals and care for the people around us. But very few of us were ever taught how to get to know ourselves.
Becoming You creates intentional spaces for women to slow down, ask better questions and become curious about what their everyday experiences may be revealing about them.
Sometimes the first step isn’t changing your life. It’s seeing more clearly what may already be shaping the way you experience it.
Why we exist
The lens through which we see ourselves can change the way we experience our lives.
For a long time, I felt a gap between the life I had imagined and the life I was actually living. I thought working harder, doing more or getting everything under control would make me feel different.
But as I began asking better questions, I discovered how deeply our experiences, fears and expectations can shape the way we see ourselves—and how differently we can experience our lives when that lens begins to change.
Becoming You creates space for women to get to know themselves more deeply and question both the beliefs they hold about themselves and the expectations that have shaped how they believe their lives should look.
Miche MasamviFounder, Becoming You
The Becoming You Table
An intimate personal-development workshop experience built around reflection, conversation and connection.
An experience designed to help you slow down and look a little closer.
Listen
Begin with a different question.
What you getA simple framework for becoming curious rather than immediately trying to fix what you’re experiencing.
Reflect
Use one experience as a mirror.
What you getThe opportunity to uncover one meaningful belief or conclusion that may have been quietly shaping the way you experience your life.
Continue
Leave with something worth carrying forward.
What you getA meaningful realization, a fuller perspective and a way to continue becoming curious long after the Table ends.
The Becoming You Mirror Method™
An approach that creates space for deeper self understanding.
The Becoming You Mirror Method™ is a guided approach to becoming curious about what your experiences may be revealing about the beliefs shaping how you see yourself and your life. It turns everyday experiences into invitations for deeper understanding.
Notice
Pay attention to what affects you deeply. Our reactions, emotions and recurring experiences can often tell us there is something worth becoming curious about.
Get curious
Instead of immediately trying to fix, avoid or judge what we feel, we create space to become curious about what may be underneath it.
See more clearly
Sometimes the beliefs shaping how we experience our lives have been with us for so long that we have stopped noticing they are there.
The Becoming You Community Stories
Stories that reveal what may be quietly shaping the way we see ourselves, our relationships and our lives.
She Told Her Husband Nothing
Discipline. Consistency. Sacrifice.
Six weeks earlier, those words had made perfect sense.
Six weeks earlier, Katherine’s legs had also given out on the concrete floor of a parking garage.
There had been no dramatic collapse. One moment she was walking toward her car, answering a message from her assistant, and the next she was sitting on the concrete between two black Camaros, crying in a way she hadn’t let herself cry in years.
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The Opportunity She Almost Talked Herself Out Of
She had wanted it for years. But when the invitation finally came, fear sounded remarkably like wisdom...
Continue readingSome identifying details have been changed, and some experiences have been combined, to protect the privacy of the women whose stories inspired these pieces.
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Questions, Answered.
Who is Becoming You for?
Becoming You is for women who want to understand themselves more deeply and become more intentional about the way they experience their lives. Women come from different ages, backgrounds and seasons of life. You do not need to be facing a crisis or major transition to benefit from the experience.
What exactly is a Becoming You Table?
The Becoming You Table is an intimate personal-development workshop experience built around the table. It combines good food, a short orientation, guided personal reflection and conversation in an environment designed to give women space to slow down and become curious about themselves.
Do I have to share personal information?
No. Your reflection belongs to you. There may be opportunities to share throughout the experience, but sharing is always optional. You decide what you want to keep private and what, if anything, you want to say out loud.
Is Becoming You therapy?
No. Becoming You is a personal-development experience, not therapy, counselling or mental-health treatment. The experience is designed to encourage reflection, curiosity and deeper self understanding.
Do I need to come with someone I know?
Not at all. Some women attend with friends and others arrive knowing no one. The Table is intentionally designed to create a warm environment where connection can happen naturally.
How can I attend the next Table?
Upcoming Becoming You Tables are announced through our website and Becoming You community. Join below to be among the first to know when registration opens.
The Becoming You Community
Stay close to what’s coming next.
Join the community for first access to upcoming Tables and new Stories, early-bird ticket pricing, exclusive partner offers and complimentary Table ticket draws.